Paloma Suárez
Nesting the Heart of our Belonging
I learn from, open and hold spaces for :
Unapologetic Grace of Women’s Circles
Courage to rest on the Thresholds
Opening the Gates of Healing through Stories
The Wisdom of Grief
Resting on our belonging
“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others.
Unfold your own myth.”
-Rumi
A place for women who long to reconnect with themselves, heal with expansive and unmasked compassion, and discover the strength that already lives within them
Hello, I'm Paloma.
For many years I have walked beside women who are searching for something they cannot always put into words.
Sometimes it is healing after loss.
Sometimes it is a longing to live with more meaning, more courage and more tenderness.
Sometimes it is simply the desire to remember who they truly are beneath the demands of everyday life.
My work is not about fixing or helping women to fit into systems that don’t serve them to grow.
It is about creating a space where you can slow down, breathe deeply, listen to your own wisdom and rediscover the strength that has always lived within you.
Why I do this work
Life transformed me in ways I could never have imagined.
The death of my nineteen-year-old son shattered the life I knew and initiated me into a dimension of profound grief, compassion and awakening. It became my new journey, connected beyond words.
I am not an expert in suffering but a student of what it means to remain fully human.
I know what it feels like to be lost.
I also know that the desire to be present in our own lives does not happen in isolation.
It happens when we are truly seen, deeply listened to and held within a compassionate community.
My offerings are born from curiosity, grief and joy.
For over 40 years I have been holding ritual spaces for women and community.
I have learned from the wisdom of my elders and my own lack of wisdom, from the stories that have rooted themselves in the landscape of my imagination and the devotion I carry for this world, the seen and the unseen helpers that breath with me, with us, holding my heart through all the gates I have to cross in my life and trusting that the road to follow will show itself.
My circles, retreats, rituals and story guides emerge from a lifetime of experience.
If you are reading this...
Perhaps you have spent years caring for everyone else.
Perhaps you are standing at a crossroads, wondering what comes next.
Perhaps grief, change, motherhood, menopause, or life's unexpected challenges have left you feeling disconnected from yourself.
If something inside you is whispering, "There must be another way to be more alive," I want you to know that you are not alone.
A place where you can reconnect with your deeper most creative self, find meaningful community and discover your own unique path with all its turnings and confusions, with all the light and shadows, the deepest losses and the deepest beauty.
I would be honoured to walk beside you.
Women’s Retreat: Dartmoor
17th-20th September 2027
A Women’s Retreat in Dartmoor, to listen, smell, taste, feel, pray, remember, create, and loose yourself as you find your own song and dance.
Communal food, walks, stories, writing, creating, sleeping, resting, wild swimming, laughing.
Whispering Moon Women’s Circle
A Circle Journey Through the Year
Next Circle Opening September 2026
Meeting once a month for a year in a closed circle is a journey of awakening wisdom and courage, of sharing and discovering, of holding less, receiving more, of thinking less, welcoming more
Ritual Retreats
Turning with the year through ritual
Each retreat is an invitation to pause, connect and realign yourself to the movement of the Earth, the Sun and the Moon in Community Ritual
You can join all of them or just one.
Stories to Grow
Vassilisa the Wise, an Initiation Spiral
What stays with me isn't just the magic and wonder of what we explored together, but how I now relate to myself.
One to One Sessions
A Transformational Relationship
Individual Support
or
Mentoring
One to One Exploring Life Transitions:
The space in our sessions is Intentional and Open to explore your feelings, memories, thoughts and sensations; This allows us to navigate the terrains of love, fear, isolation, and grief, opening our sky to the empowered freedom of insight.
Transitions can be hard and confusing, and they can take long long time, in our sessions you will invited to open up to the higher, wider, deeper, perspective of your live.
One to One Mentoring:
When we announce to the wold that we are holding others we need to work on our own connections too. There is a way of exploring your calling while being supported and open to see inner insecurities, disappointments and the void of detachment from your own feelings that may come while being the holder. As the group evolves you will you.
Soulful circles, retreats and mentoring for women seeking a deeper and more creative way of living.