Paloma Suárez
Nesting the Heart of our Belonging
I learn from, open and hold spaces for :
Unapologetic Grace of Women’s Circles
Courage to rest on the Thresholds
Opening the Gates of Healing through Stories
The Wisdom of Grief
Resting on our belonging
“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others.
Unfold your own myth.”
-Rumi
My offerings are born from curiosity, grief and joy.
For over 40 years I have been holding ritual spaces for women and community.
I have learned from the wisdom of my elders and my own lack of wisdom, from the stories that have rooted themselves in the landscape of my imagination and the devotion I carry for this world, the seen and the unseen helpers that breath with me, with us, holding my heart through all the gates I have to cross in my life and trusting that the road to follow will show itself.
My circles, retreats, rituals and story guides emerge from a lifetime of experience.
It's incredibly difficult to put Paloma's work into words, because what she offers is something that really has to be experienced. I have spent many weeks exploring myth, ancient stories and psychological ideas with her in circles, and somehow these journeys always carry us far beyond the words themselves. Paloma has a remarkable ability to honour the intellect while gently guiding you into the deeper places where a different kind of knowing begins to emerge. Within minutes of sitting in her spaces, these stories begin to flicker alive in each of us.
I found the Vassilisa course profoundly inspiring. Although her work is deeply researched and each session thoughtfully crafted, there are no right answers or "correct" interpretations. This is a living, breathing journey, shaped by every member of the circle. Paloma creates the conditions for your own truth to unfold, held with such wisdom, joy and generosity that the discoveries feel entirely your own.
What stays with me isn't just the magic and wonder of what we explored together, but how I now relate to myself. I left with a deeper trust in my intuition, a greater confidence in my own voice, a renewed appreciation for the power of discernment, and the feeling that I'd remembered something that had been quietly waiting for me all along.
Paloma is one of the most gifted space-holders I've ever encountered. Her work is thoughtful, expansive and deeply transformative, and I can't recommend it highly enough.
Sian O’
Whispering Moon Women’s Circle
A Circle Journey Through the Year
Next Cohort Starts September 2026
If you are longing to slow down, to make your place of rest a familiar space in your life, if you are curious to explore what truly matters at this stage of your life, then you have found us!
Meeting once a month for a year in a closed circle is a journey of awakening wisdom and courage, of sharing and discovering, of holding less, receiving more, of thinking less, welcoming more.
I have been holding women’s circles for around 40 years. Circle is the way I open portals for me to meet other women and for the hard work we do in the world to be guided by a softening of the heart. We teach, we learn, we give, we receive together, as fully as we can at this particular moment in our life.
Ritual Retreats
Turning with the year through ritual
The Ritual Retreat on line, is an open invitation to gather in circle to pause and join the energy of the of the year while celebrating some of the fire festivals which mark the turning points of the season.
Just two hours to reflect and realign our energy to the dance between the Earth and the Sun in community.
A circle of contemplation, blessings and prayer.
Connecting through the rays of the sun and the rays of the moon,
bringing our breath to the holy place of human ground with the heart of the forest.
Each retreat is an invitation to pause, connect and realign yourself to the movement of the Earth, the Sun and the Moon in Community Ritual
You can join all of them or just one.
One to One Sessions
A Transformational Relationship
Individual Support
or
Mentoring
One to One Exploring Life Transitions:
Life is hard sometimes, and we don’t want to rush through the difficult moments just to half-see, half-sense, or half-miss them. Our times of transition are the gold of our lives—the making of our unique elderhood, spaces of movement and brilliance, and running rivers of gold in our lives. I offer a safe place to explore difficult aspects of your life, where you can truly open up and dream into what you need to move forward calmly, beautifully, and connectedly.
The space in our sessions is Intentional and Open to explore your feelings, memories, thoughts and sensations; This allows us to navigate the terrains of love, fear, isolation, and grief, opening our sky to the empowered freedom of insight.
Transitions can be hard and confusing, and they can take long long time, in our sessions you will invited to open up to the higher, wider, deeper, perspective of your live.
One to One Mentoring:
Mentoring sessions are to help you manifesting, understanding, managing, evolving, expanding, deepening the spaces you hold and your own skills and values as a space holder.
When we announce to the wold that we are holding others we need to work on our own connections too. There is a way of exploring your calling while being supported and open to see inner insecurities, disappointments and the void of detachment from your own feelings that may come while being the holder. As the group evolves you will you.
Soulful circles, retreats and mentoring for women seeking a deeper and more creative way of living.